Creating a Gratitude Board

When I published last year’s piece  Grow a Thankful Tree , it was with the intention of re-establishing our family’s Thankful Tree tradition.  That’s my cutie-patootie nephew (many years ago!) after hanging a leaf on our holiday thankful tree.

229_2975Given that my boys and nephew’s age range last year was 12-17, I figured the tree idea might be a little too crafty (or like an elementary school art class) for their teenage liking.  So instead of growing a Thankful Tree – I decided to try creating a gratitude board.  I had big expectations, but lots of apprehension that this new tradition would take off.  Nonetheless, I laid out a large whiteboard (approx 34 x 22 inches) and a basket of dry erase markers, and crossed my fingers.  I shared with my family that this was replacing our Thankful Tree, and all they needed to do was simply write down something (or many things!) they were grateful for.


To my surprise, the Gratitude Board was a HUGE hit, with teenagers and adults alike!


I left the board propped on a chair in the corner of the kitchen, and as the week progressed, the white space slowly disappeared as the board filled up with gratitude.  Everyone enjoyed reading each other’s gratitude…and I continued to read them long after the holiday ended and my family departed.  Plus I took a photograph so I could read (while literally laughing out loud at our humor) and re-read our 2013 Thanksgiving Gratitude for years to come!


I bought some fresh new dry erase markers and cleaned the board spotless so we can document and share all that we are grateful for this Thanksgiving 2014!

Below is my post from Thanksgiving 2013.  I hope you have fun with whatever way you choose to record your family’s gratitude.   Feel free to comment and let me know what works for you!  HAPPY THANKSGIVING!


Thanksgiving is one of the two times each year that my dad, sister and her two boys travel south to visit us….and I am counting the days (hours & minutes) until they arrive!

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, because the expectation is simply to BE with family.  It’s 4-6 days filled with cooking together,  playing board games, sleeping in, overdosing on football, taking walks, eating large quantities of once a year yummies, and watching late night movies.

Each year, the Sunday after Thanksgiving arrives and I’m filled with sadness that the time passed so quickly and my family is leaving.  In an effort to combat this already expected outcome, I’m going to set the intention to be totally present to my family, to honor the relationships and to share my gratitude with them.  This is going to require an awesome action to help me fulfill my intention…..


In anticipation of next week’s holiday – this awesome action is…..


When the kids were little we used to create a thankful tree each Thanksgiving.  Sadly, it was one of those family traditions that disappeared as the boys hit double digits.  This is the perfect year to bring back this awesome action and  re-establish it as a family tradition.

I love growing a thankful tree because it’s an outlet for each of us to express and share what we are grateful for, plus it’s a visual representation of our family’s expanding gratitude.


How to grow a thankful tree…..

1.  Collect fallen sticks or small tree twigs and place them in a vase to create the foundation for the thankful tree.

2.  Cut leaf shapes out of red, orange and yellow construction paper, mimicking the richness of the autumn leaves.


3.  Set the paper leaves around the base of the vase with a few pens, and family members can write down what they are grateful for.

4.  Punch a hole in each leaf and use a thin ribbon to attach it to the twig tree.


5.  By Thanksgiving dinner, your thankful tree will be in full bloom.  Throughout the meal, take turns reading what everyone is thankful for.

You can grow your thankful tree, exactly as I described.  Or feel free to take the concept and mold it into something better suited for your family.

*  Thankful journal – purchase a journal and invite your family members to write (and date) their gratitude directly into the journal.  This would be an awesome way to keep the gratitude lists together year after year.


*  Thankful box – use a shoe box or photo keepsake box to collect each person’s gratitude list during the holiday.

*  Thankful whiteboard (blackboard) – leave a whiteboard and dry erase markers easily accessible, allowing the family to create a colorful graffiti board filled with gratitude.  Before erasing it, be sure to add the date and take a photograph to capture it forever.  Better yet – take a family picture around the thankful whiteboard.


*  Thankful scrapbook – build a holiday thankful scrapbook with photos, handwritten gratitude and other memorabilia and keepsakes.

*  Thankful chain – cut construction paper into 5 inch by 1 inch strips.  As each person writes down something they are grateful for, curve the strip into a circle (held by staple, tape or glue), creating links that connect, building a chain.  Each year could be an individual paper chain, or add on year after year, creating a growing chain of gratitude.


Get creative or keep it simple.  The point is to give your family a way to express, share and record what they are grateful for.

with Joy, Gratitude & Love,


  1. Leslie law says:

    What a cool idea. You should have been a teacher. You are so creative. Grateful for our friendship!

    • coming from YOU – the BEST gifted resource teacher EVER – now that’s a compliment! I too am grateful for our friendship – and how it has evolved over the years.

  2. Gail caprio says:

    How about a 2nd board where one writes what he or she thinks another family member might be grateful for or should be greatfull for?…….or what adjective (s) describe a loved one?….plenty of days to write…right?

    • I LOVE the idea of sharing words that describe other family members – we (people) don’t see ourselves the way the world sees us! That would be fun – got an extra white board? LOL

  3. amazing ideas . what a great person you are. i am really grateful for your thought. thank you for sharing . Thank you…..

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